End of an Era
59A rather dramatic title, I know, but it’s what came to my
mind earlier this afternoon when I learned that the former principal of my
school passed away after a long illness that she faced with characteristic
courage and spirit. She ruled, for there is no other word, the school for more
than thirty years and her time at the helm was what could only be called an
era. The history of the school will forever be divided into ‘before’ her time,
and ‘after’.
We were impressionable girls of 12 when she took over as
principal from Anglican nuns who were returning to England. After decades spent trying to teach boisterous
Indian girls how to be young ladies, I imagine the nuns were rather relieved to be
going home. While some of them were undoubtedly martinets, they were largely a
gentle bunch and we were sorry to see them go. We would miss their white
wimpled figures bobbing around the school premises, but with the casual
insouciance of girls that age, we were ready to adapt. Quite frankly, we had
other more pressing concerns than who would take over as principal.
A mistake, as it turned out. The nuns had left us in very
good hands. Within a few short months we felt the changes taking place. This
was not a lady we could take lightly, and she very effectively proved she meant
business. Gently at first, she steered the school along in the direction she
deemed right, and slowly revealed the steel in her personality. Her decisions
were not always popular, but no one could argue that they didn’t bring results.
We had only three years left at school and were fortunate
that she still had the time from administrative duties to teach, for she was a
superlative History teacher. Her English lessons had us enthralled and none of
us dared to take Julius Caesar lightly under her reign. Shakespeare under a
less experienced teacher would have been a disaster! She made sure we actually understood
and remembered more about the great emperor than his unforgettable ‘Et tu,
Brute’, not that we appreciated it much then.
Such was her persona that long after we had passed out of
school we still straightened smartly when we bumped into her anywhere and
meekly wished her the time of day. She remembered the names of all the girls
she’d taught years after we’d left her ambit, and with our names she’d remember,
and bring up with a half naughty smile, all our schoolgirl lapses.
She was a legend, and came to be synonymous with the school
over the years. Even after ill health forced her to retire, she didn’t take a
backseat, continuing to provide discreet guidance and direction to the school.
It’s not my intention to write a maudlin piece about her, for she didn’t
inspire such soppy sentiments. She was a force to reckon with, and no one
remained indifferent to her. There are some teachers you never forget, and she
was certainly one of those, and now when she’s finally laid down the baton, it
seems fitting to pay a tribute.
Text messages are flying to and fro, the phone keeps ringing as the old girls network spreads the news of her passing. The reactions are varied, ranging from guilt at not being able to visit her when she was ill, to deep regret at her passing. No one is unmoved. When she leaves the school portals for the last time, it will certainly be the end of an era. The gates will open again to a new chapter in the history of that venerable old school.
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Peace to her soul !!
Prophet: I can't tell you how beautifully written and touching I found your eulogy. Thank you for introducing us to this fine educator who well deserves to be remembered.
Oh, and you also introduced me to a new word: ambit. Thank you for that, too!
Definitely the end of an era.
I was pleasantly surprised one day in my daughter's school when an elderly lady called me by name and asked me if I remembered her. Mrs Callaghan had taught me English in Primary School and she had actually recognized me and recalled my name! All this, nearly 40 years down the line!
There are some more teachers who come to me as my patients. But this one incident stirred me a lot...
Nice tribute!
Hmmmm...Rest in peace
The impact of dedicated teachers on young impressionable minds is so profound that it is hard to express in words. But you've done that very well, FP.
Brings to mind some of the towering personalities amongst the Irish Brothers at my school and the Principal and Deputy Commandant at NDA. What one is today is largely because of how one was moulded then.
A good tribute to her. She'd have been proud of you, FP
Yeah, but she probably bought every issue!
FP, a tribute to a teacher is one of the Ultimate, and a Crowning Glory for the said teacher! Their lifes' work can be said to have been achieved, and they can rest in peace knowing that they attained the heights!
I for one am forever indebted to my English Teacher. I bow humbly before you, Deshpande Sir......RIP knowing that you will always be lovingly remembered.....
There are people who mark us forever. Your words are a tribute to the good this woman did in touching the young lives she did. She will always be with you. That the emails are flying, is an added tribute to her.
Once again, an awesome slice of life from you.
Really great and touching hub FP, my sister in law is a teacher. I'm going to forward this to her.
Teachers can be such dedicated people...I have several in my family and my youngest daughter is a schoolteacher for the Waldorf Schools...they give so much time and effort to the young ones and may never know how much they effect a child of any age...I believe they are both under rated and under paid...
Such a nice tribute my dear,,,God Bless...G-Ma :O) Hugs
Don't suppose your old school will be the same without her!
Feline Prophet ...I do know this type of person. We had a nun at the school in our town that was just that same type of person. And all of the people remembered her and how the school was then.
And you are right ...there is a before and after Sister Mary! She was stern but loved ...rigid but fair. The school has never been the same.
I admire you for the emotion enough to write her tribute in HubPages. I am sure she is aware of your devotion!
My prayers to you and those who have lost this wonderful lady!
What a wonderful tribute, Feline Prophet. My sympathies to you and the "girls" that will miss her.
As a former principal and long-time educator, I appreciate your thoughts...
There are people who are pushed along by the current and there are those who stand firm and change the current, and in the process change our lives. Thanks for sharing your excellent story about this great person.
Teachers need to always get paid more as they are our inspiration and mentors. They create and mold us to be all that we can be. Imagine if we did not have a teacher to instruct us, we would certainly be in a world of mess. Thumbs UP!
What a beautiful tribute to someone who was obviously very important to you. Sadly teachers are underated at the moment but we need to remember that they help to form the type of adults we become and how we function in the world.
I am sure she would be proud and touched to know how loved she was.
its important that we dont forget about people who have shaped our life. You have expressed your tribute pretty well. Thumbs up
























Elena. Level 1 Commenter 3 years ago
Nice tribute, FP. I have a couple of teachers in my past that I can't forget, they helped me shape myself and I'm eternaly grateful to them for that.