End of an Era

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By Feline Prophet

A rather dramatic title, I know, but it’s what came to my mind earlier this afternoon when I learned that the former principal of my school passed away after a long illness that she faced with characteristic courage and spirit. She ruled, for there is no other word, the school for more than thirty years and her time at the helm was what could only be called an era. The history of the school will forever be divided into ‘before’ her time, and ‘after’.

We were impressionable girls of 12 when she took over as principal from Anglican nuns who were returning to England. After decades spent trying to teach boisterous Indian girls how to be young ladies, I imagine the nuns were rather relieved to be going home. While some of them were undoubtedly martinets, they were largely a gentle bunch and we were sorry to see them go. We would miss their white wimpled figures bobbing around the school premises, but with the casual insouciance of girls that age, we were ready to adapt. Quite frankly, we had other more pressing concerns than who would take over as principal.

A mistake, as it turned out. The nuns had left us in very good hands. Within a few short months we felt the changes taking place. This was not a lady we could take lightly, and she very effectively proved she meant business. Gently at first, she steered the school along in the direction she deemed right, and slowly revealed the steel in her personality. Her decisions were not always popular, but no one could argue that they didn’t bring results.

We had only three years left at school and were fortunate that she still had the time from administrative duties to teach, for she was a superlative History teacher. Her English lessons had us enthralled and none of us dared to take Julius Caesar lightly under her reign. Shakespeare under a less experienced teacher would have been a disaster! She made sure we actually understood and remembered more about the great emperor than his unforgettable ‘Et tu, Brute’, not that we appreciated it much then.

Such was her persona that long after we had passed out of school we still straightened smartly when we bumped into her anywhere and meekly wished her the time of day. She remembered the names of all the girls she’d taught years after we’d left her ambit, and with our names she’d remember, and bring up with a half naughty smile, all our schoolgirl lapses.

She was a legend, and came to be synonymous with the school over the years. Even after ill health forced her to retire, she didn’t take a backseat, continuing to provide discreet guidance and direction to the school. It’s not my intention to write a maudlin piece about her, for she didn’t inspire such soppy sentiments. She was a force to reckon with, and no one remained indifferent to her. There are some teachers you never forget, and she was certainly one of those, and now when she’s finally laid down the baton, it seems fitting to pay a tribute.

Text messages are flying to and fro, the phone keeps ringing as the old girls network spreads the news of her passing. The reactions are varied, ranging from guilt at not being able to visit her when she was ill, to deep regret at her passing. No one is unmoved. When she leaves the school portals for the last time, it will certainly be the end of an era. The gates will open again to a new chapter in the history of that venerable old school.

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Elena. Level 1 Commenter 3 years ago

Nice tribute, FP. I have a couple of teachers in my past that I can't forget, they helped me shape myself and I'm eternaly grateful to them for that.

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Feline Prophet Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks Elena. I think schooldays leave a lasting impression, and she certainly was a formidable influence.

Raja 3 years ago

Peace to her soul !!

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MindField 3 years ago

Prophet: I can't tell you how beautifully written and touching I found your eulogy. Thank you for introducing us to this fine educator who well deserves to be remembered.

Oh, and you also introduced me to a new word: ambit. Thank you for that, too!

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Feline Prophet Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks for reading, Raja!

Thank you Mindfield, like I said, she was a force to reckon with. And thanks for temporarily floating into my ambit! :)

minilady 3 years ago

Definitely the end of an era.

Ravin 3 years ago

I was pleasantly surprised one day in my daughter's school when an elderly lady called me by name and asked me if I remembered her. Mrs Callaghan had taught me English in Primary School and she had actually recognized me and recalled my name! All this, nearly 40 years down the line!

There are some more teachers who come to me as my patients. But this one incident stirred me a lot...

Nice tribute!

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dianacharles 3 years ago

Hmmmm...Rest in peace

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Jaspal Level 1 Commenter 3 years ago

The impact of dedicated teachers on young impressionable minds is so profound that it is hard to express in words. But you've done that very well, FP.

Brings to mind some of the towering personalities amongst the Irish Brothers at my school and the Principal and Deputy Commandant at NDA. What one is today is largely because of how one was moulded then.

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Feline Prophet Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks for reading, all of you. I realise it's a matter of perception, and someone who influenced me may not have had the same impact on another. It's true that people we meet along life's path have an effect on us, for better or worse.

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cindyvine 3 years ago

A good tribute to her. She'd have been proud of you, FP

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Feline Prophet Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks Cindy. I don't know about being proud of me...I remember she was distinctly disdainful that I ended up editing something as frivolous as a society magazine! :P

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cindyvine 3 years ago

Yeah, but she probably bought every issue!

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Feline Prophet Hub Author 3 years ago

LOL, that's a thought! :P

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Rashmi J 3 years ago

FP, a tribute to a teacher is one of the Ultimate, and a Crowning Glory for the said teacher! Their lifes' work can be said to have been achieved, and they can rest in peace knowing that they attained the heights!

I for one am forever indebted to my English Teacher. I bow humbly before you, Deshpande Sir......RIP knowing that you will always be lovingly remembered.....

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Sally's Trove 3 years ago

There are people who mark us forever. Your words are a tribute to the good this woman did in touching the young lives she did. She will always be with you. That the emails are flying, is an added tribute to her.

Once again, an awesome slice of life from you.

TheSandman 3 years ago

Really great and touching hub FP, my sister in law is a teacher. I'm going to forward this to her.

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G-Ma Johnson Level 4 Commenter 3 years ago

Teachers can be such dedicated people...I have several in my family and my youngest daughter is a schoolteacher for the Waldorf Schools...they give so much time and effort to the young ones and may never know how much they effect a child of any age...I believe they are both under rated and under paid...

Such a nice tribute my dear,,,God Bless...G-Ma :O) Hugs

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Feline Prophet Hub Author 3 years ago

Glad this reminded you of your English teacher, Rashmi. :)

Thanks ST, it's hard to believe she's passed on...she was an institution!

Sandman, thank you. And I'm touched that you would forward this on to your sister-in-law.

You're so right G-Ma, many teachers are underrated and underpaid, and few are committed enough to take to teaching these days...that's the sad thing. Thanks for reading. And hugs to you too! :)

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Shalini Kagal Level 4 Commenter 3 years ago

Don't suppose your old school will be the same without her!

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Feline Prophet Hub Author 3 years ago

It certainly won't but change is the name of the game...:)

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gjcody 3 years ago

Feline Prophet ...I do know this type of person.  We had a nun at the school in our town that was just that same type of person.  And all of the people remembered her and how the school was then.

And you are right ...there is a before and after Sister Mary!  She was stern but loved ...rigid but fair.  The school has never been the same.

I admire you for the emotion enough to write her tribute in HubPages.  I am sure she is aware of your devotion!

My prayers to you and those who have lost this wonderful lady!

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Feline Prophet Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks gj...your Sister Mary sounds so familiar. :)

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English Teacher 3 years ago

What a wonderful tribute, Feline Prophet. My sympathies to you and the "girls" that will miss her.

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Jeff May Level 2 Commenter 3 years ago

As a former principal and long-time educator, I appreciate your thoughts...

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Tom Rubenoff 3 years ago

There are people who are pushed along by the current and there are those who stand firm and change the current, and in the process change our lives. Thanks for sharing your excellent story about this great person.

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Feline Prophet Hub Author 3 years ago

Thank you ET, Jeff and Tom for stopping by. Yesterday was the lady's funeral and it didn't surprise any of us to learn that she had planned every last detail of it! Obviously she wanted to go as she lived...in a disciplined, organised manner with nothing left to chance! It was touching to see the large number of people who turned up to pay their last respects to her.

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AEvans Level 7 Commenter 3 years ago

Teachers need to always get paid more as they are our inspiration and mentors. They create and mold us to be all that we can be. Imagine if we did not have a teacher to instruct us, we would certainly be in a world of mess. Thumbs UP!

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Feline Prophet Hub Author 3 years ago

You're so right AE. Of all the professions in the world, teaching perhaps carries the most responsibility.

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Tiptopcat 3 years ago

What a beautiful tribute to someone who was obviously very important to you. Sadly teachers are underated at the moment but we need to remember that they help to form the type of adults we become and how we function in the world.

I am sure she would be proud and touched to know how loved she was.

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Feline Prophet Hub Author 3 years ago

Thank you Tiptopcat. There are some teachers who leave an indelible impression while others don't leave the slightest mark...you have to be lucky to find the right ones!

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jayb23 3 years ago

its important that we dont forget about people who have shaped our life. You have expressed your tribute pretty well. Thumbs up

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Feline Prophet Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks Jay! :)

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